5 RULES FOR A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP

AN INTRODUCTION INTO MY WORLD

Hello guys, my name is adeola but you can call me kren, kren is a name i got from the bible (the latter children of job, one of them was named keren happuch). This isn’t like a typical blog post, its just a welcome note and an introduction into my world of blogging.
When i was much younger, i noticed that i fell in love with beauty and lifestyle, i loved dressing up myself, i loved writing about things happening around me and what i really wanted in life, i could remember i used to write songs and poems, i loved designing clothes, also criticizing anyone who dresses, to cut all my cock and bull story short, i wanted to be a celebrity, i wanted to be noticed  but all of these was cut short by lack of consistency, i had no one to share my dreams with, i was scared of coming out, i never had a very fun childhood, so all the things i did, i did in the closet and they all died just like that.
As i grew older, life became unfair to me, because all the fear i had when i was a child became heightened and i couldn’t even do just anything without being scared of rejection. Then another thing came up, guess what? it was my weight and the way i looked, i just hated it, i knew why i hated it, i mean for a girl who wants to be a celebrity being body shammed, i was a disaster, i couldn’t go anywhere or wear anything without being ashamed, i had friends who had amazing bodies and i felt left out, anytime i was in a relationship, it was not because i wanted to, or because it was what i needed, it was more of like, ‘the first guy that has asked me out in the last six months, let me date him’, but fortunately for me now and unfortunately for me then, the relationships don’t last. I know many girls have gone or are even going through this phase, where you have to date a guy not because you want to, but because you need to, well trust me, its not the best, it might be even bad when you get to marry that person, *sad face*. This is a topic for another day.
However, i got to be enlightened that if you don’t like anything about yourself, change it, even though the bible made it clear that we are all beautifully and wonderfully made, i do agree, but then, isn’t it the same God that gave us will power to choose whatever we want for ourselves, and if we think we will be happy by changing one or two things about ourselves, its not necessarily a sin, or is it? well, this will also be another topic for another day.
Back to business, this tumblr page is created by me, to share all of my healthy tips about my weight loss journey, how i maintain it (even though i want to lose more), my beauty tips, my love for make up, my insecurities, my beliefs about life, spirituality, marriage, relationship, social media, politics and the entire world. i want you all to note that all posts might not be necessarily constructed by me, i will try as much as possible to reference my work and also most importantly i want to be as realistic as possible, this is not an average blog where people don’t practice what they preach, i am human and i want to be as humanly as possible. i love you guys and please your comments will be a source of encouragement.