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VOICES IN MY HEAD

At what point are you going to grow up and stop living a teenage fantasy?
For how long will you hate yourself and let other peoples life determine how you live?
You have felt this way for as long as I can remember and to be honest you might end up an old sad woman with no life.
When you take one step forward you take 15steps backwards.
You don't give room for help or love. To be honest how will love be opened if you don't love yourself.
Success is determined by the amount of effort you put into developing yourself.
It is normal to fail, but it is a sin to give up
Also, some facts are fixed about life and you need to understand those facts before you succeed
Not everyone will like you
You are not created to please everyone
Learn to say 'no' and also understand that people will say no to you.
acceptance and rejection are part of life's lesson
Change is important to everyone and its constant
Deal with your emotions.
Don't force things to work. Honestly please stop trying to push things
Que sera sera
Especially relationships
Don't let your insecurities override your ability to see through things
Insecurities and you is like a blind man walking with a mad man who has his sights
You are the blind man and insecurities stands for d mad man
A mad man will lead a blind man to the wrong place just like insecurities will lead you to your destruction
It will make you feel like you're heading the right direction and this will make you vulnerable and weak
I never said you should stop being insecure, because I know that Insecurity is present in everyone
But the stronger ones dominate their insecurity.
Remember God and be consistent with Him
Believe in His words and put in your best
God is not a magician
Let love find you, forget about Instagram
Do the best you can to make you a better person
Don't let social media define you.
It was created to dominate you and make you weak
So why let it
People preach their confidence with the number of attention gotten through social media
It gets to you, I know, I mean we are all humans
But ask yourself this. Is this how I want to live myself?
The media will make you hate yourself and still try to preach self love
Think girl! Think!
No amount of marc Jacobs will transform your inner confidence
No reps of squats and crunches will bring the beauty of the mind
It depends on how you manage your life, how you control your environment and how to balance your flaws and strength
Remember.......
This is real life and this is your life

Love
X

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