Many women today are in dysfunctional relationships and we fail to see it. Or i would say many see it but they don’t just want you leave. Why? Why would you prefer a toxic relationship to your freedom. Why do you value what the society thinks about you than your happiness? I am not talking for the married ones now (puft!!! I am not married yet) I am talking for the unmarried ladies who believe being in a relationship is one of life's achievement.
Here are signs to show you ‘he’s not just that into you anymore’ and you need to bag your bags and leave....
Here are signs to show you ‘he’s not just that into you anymore’ and you need to bag your bags and leave....
1. HE COMPLAINS ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU DO.
‘ why do you look like this’ ‘why are you so clumsy’ ‘Why are you breathing’ ‘Why are you living’. Many ladies can testify to some pointless arguments with their men on why they do things the way they do. He just becomes unnecessarily touchy or he doesn’t see anything good in whatever you bring to the relationship. IT’S A SIGN YOU NEED TO LEAVE
‘ why do you look like this’ ‘why are you so clumsy’ ‘Why are you breathing’ ‘Why are you living’. Many ladies can testify to some pointless arguments with their men on why they do things the way they do. He just becomes unnecessarily touchy or he doesn’t see anything good in whatever you bring to the relationship. IT’S A SIGN YOU NEED TO LEAVE
2. YOU NOW FORCE HIM TO DO THE THINGS HE LOVED DOING FOR YOU IN THE START.
You now have to force him to put a call through even when he’s not busy. You have to force him to spend time with you. These are things that shouldn’t change in a relationship, you shouldn’t force things to happen, you don’t have to compel him to do things he’s meant to do or things he’s being doing at the start of the relationship. If you’re beginning to do force him. It’s not rocket science, it’s simple arithmetic........ LEAVE
You now have to force him to put a call through even when he’s not busy. You have to force him to spend time with you. These are things that shouldn’t change in a relationship, you shouldn’t force things to happen, you don’t have to compel him to do things he’s meant to do or things he’s being doing at the start of the relationship. If you’re beginning to do force him. It’s not rocket science, it’s simple arithmetic........ LEAVE
3. HE MAKES SILLY EXCUSES FOR HIS MISTAJES
‘oh baby it’s work’, ‘ oh my love you know I have so many responsibilities’ hmmmmmm when these excuses becomes a ‘speed dial’ for him.... TAKE A WALK
4. HE JUST WANTS TO HIT
Most men don’t want to say the word ‘ let’s break up’ especially when the sex is good. This means its the only thing keeping them in the relationship. So every time he comes over, or you go over ( in most cases he tells you to come over) and he just wants to remove your pants and put it in, don’t feel sexy girl.. HE’S NO LONGER INTO YOU
‘oh baby it’s work’, ‘ oh my love you know I have so many responsibilities’ hmmmmmm when these excuses becomes a ‘speed dial’ for him.... TAKE A WALK
4. HE JUST WANTS TO HIT
Most men don’t want to say the word ‘ let’s break up’ especially when the sex is good. This means its the only thing keeping them in the relationship. So every time he comes over, or you go over ( in most cases he tells you to come over) and he just wants to remove your pants and put it in, don’t feel sexy girl.. HE’S NO LONGER INTO YOU
5. HE NEEDS SPACE
Men require space, no doubt about that. A man wants time for himself, time to hang out with the boys and all but if he SPECIFICALLY ASKS YOU for space, give him all the space.....
Men require space, no doubt about that. A man wants time for himself, time to hang out with the boys and all but if he SPECIFICALLY ASKS YOU for space, give him all the space.....
6. HE DOESN’T COMPLIMENT YOU ANYMORE
At the start of the relationship, he knew why he fell in love with you, he knew what and what he liked about you and he tells you these things. But when he doesn’t tell you these things anymore, he’s just mute about everything, he doesn’t know why he loves you anymore., he’s no longer attracted to you... STOP TRYING AND MOVE ON
At the start of the relationship, he knew why he fell in love with you, he knew what and what he liked about you and he tells you these things. But when he doesn’t tell you these things anymore, he’s just mute about everything, he doesn’t know why he loves you anymore., he’s no longer attracted to you... STOP TRYING AND MOVE ON
7. HES HIDDING SOMEHING FROM YOU
Someone who never hides things from you suddenly starts hiding his phone calls, his messages, his friends, his movements.... don’t let him make you feel like a nosy b***** He’s hiding something important and it’s in two words IT’S OVER
Someone who never hides things from you suddenly starts hiding his phone calls, his messages, his friends, his movements.... don’t let him make you feel like a nosy b***** He’s hiding something important and it’s in two words IT’S OVER
8. HE BLAMES YOU
He doesn’t just wants to be blamed. He makes you feel less of a person, you feel incapable of anything again. You start questioning yourself, you start comparing yourself, he starts comparing you. Girl! You’re not the problem, he is and it’s very important to make it easy for him by EXITING THE relationship.
He doesn’t just wants to be blamed. He makes you feel less of a person, you feel incapable of anything again. You start questioning yourself, you start comparing yourself, he starts comparing you. Girl! You’re not the problem, he is and it’s very important to make it easy for him by EXITING THE relationship.
9. HE’S NO LONGER EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE
He doesn’t want to talk, he doesn’t want to communicate. He doesn’t value time spent with you Men are rarely emotional but they show emotions in their own way and when he doesn’t show hose emotions, when he becomes suddenly plain with you.. HE DOESN’T HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU ANYMORE
He doesn’t want to talk, he doesn’t want to communicate. He doesn’t value time spent with you Men are rarely emotional but they show emotions in their own way and when he doesn’t show hose emotions, when he becomes suddenly plain with you.. HE DOESN’T HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOU ANYMORE
10. YOUR INSTINCTS TELLS YOU
Most times our instincts speaks to us but we fail to listen because we are ‘in love’. Don’t be blind to your instincts, don’t ignore them, most times we are always right but we don’t want to see it.
Most times our instincts speaks to us but we fail to listen because we are ‘in love’. Don’t be blind to your instincts, don’t ignore them, most times we are always right but we don’t want to see it.
It don't have to be in a relationship if it is at the expense of your happiness. However, there are other reasons to show you a guy is no longer into you and you can hit me up with more, one very important one I left out is if he starts getting physically and emotionally abusive with you. You don’t need a therapist to tell you need to take a walk. Find what you truly want, don’t settle for what you see. Don’t let your parents decide your life for You, don’t let friends influence you, don’t let the society get into your head. You are more than enough. Work on yourself and make YOU a better person.
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